Top-Rated Denver Therapist for Polyamory, Kink, & Consensual Non-Monogamy
Tired of therapists who don't get your relationship style or make you feel like you need to explain yourself? Yeah, me too. Whether you’re exploring kink for the first time, need support navigating consensual non-monogamy, or have questions about your identity, sexuality, or relationship needs, I’m here for it—no judgment, weird looks, or out-of-touch questions.
Meet your poly-friendly therapist
Chelsea Newton
Hey! I’m Chelsea, and I’m a queer sex therapist who gets it because I live it. My approach blends relational therapy with sex-positive, trauma-informed care to help you build the relationships and sexual experiences you actually want. No shame, no assumptions about what your relationships "should" look like, and definitely no trying to fit you into a monogamous box.
Good fit for: Baby queers, LGBTQ+ folks, anyone having problems with sex
Credentials: Licensed Clinical Social Worker
Clientele: Adults
Location: Littleton, CO (serving Colorado residents)
Virtual therapy? Yes, across Colorado
Common reasons why people come to see me
You're tired of hiding your relationship structure from everyone (maybe even past therapists)
You want to explore kink but have no idea where to start or how to stay safe when doing so
Your family thinks you're going through a "phase" and you're starting to doubt yourself
You're dealing with sexual trauma and need someone who understands how it intersects with “alternative” relationship styles
You feel like you're "doing poly wrong" and it feels like everyone else but you seems to have it figured out
You're experiencing compersion (feeling happy about your partner's other relationships) or jealousy for the first time and aren’t sure what to make of it
You want to come out as poly/kinky to certain people, but are terrified of rejection
You're questioning if consensual non-monogamy is right for you or if you're just scared of commitment
Dating apps are a nightmare when you're trying to explain your relationship structure
You feel isolated because none of your friends seem to understand
How therapy can help
Build healthier communication skills
Learn how to navigate difficult conversations about boundaries, emotions, and needs with partners. We'll work on expressing yourself clearly and hearing others without getting triggered, which is essential when you're managing multiple relationships or exploring new dynamics.
Navigate sexual shame and trauma
Many people in poly or ENM relationships carry shame about their desires (thanks, society) or past experiences that make intimacy challenging (looking at you, religious trauma). We'll work through internalized messages about what relationships and sexuality "should" look like, and address how trauma might be showing up in your current relationships and sexual experiences.
Explore your authentic sexual self
Whether you're curious about kink, figuring out your poly style, or just want to understand your desires better, therapy provides a judgment-free space to explore. As part of the process, we’ll also work through any shame or fear that's holding you back from having the sex and relationships you want.
Navigate coming out and social challenges
Coming out as poly or kinky—whether to others or even just being honest with yourself—can be intimidating and overwhelming. Together, we can strategize about who to tell, when, and how, all while building your confidence to live authentically even when others don't understand.
FAQs about polyamorous therapy
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I work with all kinds of consensual non-monogamy, whether you're in a hierarchical poly setup, practicing relationship anarchy, exploring open relationships, or figuring out what works for you. I also support people in kink dynamics, including D/s relationships, and those exploring different forms of ethical non-monogamy. The keyword is consensual—as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult, I'm here for whatever relationship structure makes sense for your life. Just keep in mind that my sessions are exclusively for individuals.
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Nope, I only work with individuals. But here's the thing—working on yourself individually can often have a huge impact on your relationships. When you understand your own triggers, boundaries, and communication patterns better, you show up differently in all your relationships. Plus, individual therapy gives you space to explore your feelings without worrying about how it affects your partner(s) in the moment.
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If you're looking for someone who won't try to change the subject when you talk about kink or make you explain what ENM is, you're in the right place.
Here's what makes my practice different:
I'm a queer therapist and human
I have 10+ years of experience supporting LGBTQ+ individuals
I have specialized training in human sexuality and sex therapy
I take a sex-positive, kink-aware approach that doesn't pathologize your choices
I’m committed to trauma-informed care that understands how past experiences impact current relationships
The best way to know if we're a good fit is to book a free vibe check. Schedule yours here!
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Great question! While I’d love to support you, I recognize that my practice isn’t always the right fit for every single situation. If you need a different therapist, I recommend checking out the Kink Aware Professionals (KAP) directory or the AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists) directory. When reaching out, don't be afraid to ask directly about their experience with polyamory and kink—a good therapist will be upfront about their comfort level and experience.
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First, we'll do a vibe check to make sure we're a good fit. No pressure, just a free, 20-minute chat to make sure we’re on the same page before we move forward. If we decide to work together, we’ll set up your first appointment, where we’ll talk about what’s bringing you to therapy and what you want to change.
Sessions are conversational—think less clinical interview, more real talk with someone who happens to have professional training in helping people figure their shit out. I'll probably ask you direct questions about your relationships and sex life, and we'll work together to process your emotions and develop strategies that actually work for your life.
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Book a free vibe check where we can chat about what's going on and whether I'm the right therapist for you. This is a chance to ask any questions you might have and to see if we click. If we decide to work together, we'll schedule your first session and start diving into whatever you want to explore. I'm currently accepting new clients for virtual sessions throughout Colorado.